2008 Woodie Awards
LIghts out with Liz
Pleasing your man with your mouth
Liz Elling
Issue date: 2/16/07 Section: A&E
- Page 1 of 1
What is the surest way to a man's heart? Some people think it's through his stomach. These people are wrong. It is through his penis.
Oral sex, whether it functions as foreplay, the main event, or after play, is a sure way to please your man. If you have qualms about your man's hygiene, suggest a playful shower before hand (or go ahead and give him head in the shower).
Make sure you and your partner are in a comfortable position to give and receive. Try kneeling on a pillow with your man standing or sitting in front of you, or straddle his legs while he is lying down.
Oral sex is all about attitude. The fact that you are willing and excited to give a blow job can be a huge turn-on for your guy. Do not act like going down is a chore or an obligation (even if, to you, it is). Rather, let your partner know you are enjoying this time with him with a moan or eye contact.
Perfect your technique. Start with some touching and teasing, and when you are both ready, cover your teeth with your lips and take your guy's member in your mouth. The most sensitive part of the penis is the head, so concentrate your mouth there with sucking and licking. Vary the motion of your tongue by circling the head, licking side to side, or up and down along the underside.
No blow job is complete without using two hands. An easy way to increase your guy's pleasure is to form a ring with one hand and move it simultaneously up and down his shaft in connection with your mouth. Your other hand is then free to stimulate other sensitive areas such as his testicles.
If your jaw becomes tired, take a break and rely on your hands to please him. Try moving your hand in a swirling motion over the top of his penis or using your thumb to stimulate the head. The easiest ways to know what pleases your partner is to have him demonstrate or guide you.
If climax is the goal, maintain contact and firm pressure on the head (with your hands or mouth), and keep a steady rhythm. Listen to his breathing or comments to gauge his reactions and get a cue for when he will orgasm. Ask him for a warning, such as "I'm ready" or placing a hand on you when he is about to ejaculate so you are not surprised.
If you have the technique down, try something new like flavored condoms or lube. Suck on an ice cube or take a sip of a warm drink before going down. If your guy is comfortable with using a vibrator, try holding it to your cheek while you perform.
An added incentive for giving your partner fellatio is sexual karma: give and you shall receive! Read the next "Lights Out" for tips on performing oral sex on your girl.
• Liz Elling was nicknamed "Winston Churchill" in high school.
Oral sex, whether it functions as foreplay, the main event, or after play, is a sure way to please your man. If you have qualms about your man's hygiene, suggest a playful shower before hand (or go ahead and give him head in the shower).
Make sure you and your partner are in a comfortable position to give and receive. Try kneeling on a pillow with your man standing or sitting in front of you, or straddle his legs while he is lying down.
Oral sex is all about attitude. The fact that you are willing and excited to give a blow job can be a huge turn-on for your guy. Do not act like going down is a chore or an obligation (even if, to you, it is). Rather, let your partner know you are enjoying this time with him with a moan or eye contact.
Perfect your technique. Start with some touching and teasing, and when you are both ready, cover your teeth with your lips and take your guy's member in your mouth. The most sensitive part of the penis is the head, so concentrate your mouth there with sucking and licking. Vary the motion of your tongue by circling the head, licking side to side, or up and down along the underside.
No blow job is complete without using two hands. An easy way to increase your guy's pleasure is to form a ring with one hand and move it simultaneously up and down his shaft in connection with your mouth. Your other hand is then free to stimulate other sensitive areas such as his testicles.
If your jaw becomes tired, take a break and rely on your hands to please him. Try moving your hand in a swirling motion over the top of his penis or using your thumb to stimulate the head. The easiest ways to know what pleases your partner is to have him demonstrate or guide you.
If climax is the goal, maintain contact and firm pressure on the head (with your hands or mouth), and keep a steady rhythm. Listen to his breathing or comments to gauge his reactions and get a cue for when he will orgasm. Ask him for a warning, such as "I'm ready" or placing a hand on you when he is about to ejaculate so you are not surprised.
If you have the technique down, try something new like flavored condoms or lube. Suck on an ice cube or take a sip of a warm drink before going down. If your guy is comfortable with using a vibrator, try holding it to your cheek while you perform.
An added incentive for giving your partner fellatio is sexual karma: give and you shall receive! Read the next "Lights Out" for tips on performing oral sex on your girl.
• Liz Elling was nicknamed "Winston Churchill" in high school.
Be the first to comment on this story