2008 Woodie Awards
Lights out with Liz
Pleasing your woman with your mouth
Liz Lumiére
Issue date: 2/23/07 Section: A&E
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Going down, eating out, rug-munching, sucking off, licking lips, muff diving. The slang terms for oral sex performed on a woman do not stop there (if you are my editor, you refer to it as going into the "combat zone"). No matter what you call it, chances are your girl will enjoy receiving it.
Oftentimes for a woman, there is nothing sexier than feeling desirable. If you elect not to perform oral sex on your female partner, she should respect your decision. However, she may interpret your lack of actions as a rejection of part of her sexuality. Talk to her about your choice, and if it is a question of hygiene, it can easily be solved by a bath or a shower together.
A position that is comfortable for both parties involves the woman sitting on the edge of a bed, table, or chair, with her partner kneeling on the floor. This position will let you get as close as you want, while also allowing you to see the effects of your actions.
Most women cannot reach a sexual peak without stimulation of the clitoris (if you do not know what the "clit" is, I'm sure a Google Images search will be an exciting way to find out). So, going down on a girl is mostly about finding her favorite spots and providing a variety of pleasurable sensations.
Once you have determined what your girl does and does not enjoy, try combinations of licking, sucking and flicking your tongue. A tried-and-true method is to trace the ABC's on and around her clit. She may or may not want you to use your hands as well. Try holding your partner closer, lifting her, or using your hands on other erogenous zones while you go down on her.
While variety is certainly important, remember to keep your motions consistent and steady as she approaches her climax. Keep in mind that the "right" amount of pressure differs from woman to woman.
Asking questions is key. They only way to know what your partner wants is to pay attention to what they say and how they react to your actions. A simple question or statement may feel awkward, but might save your partner from having to feign enjoyment. It is also important not to rush your girl; giving her as much time as she needs shows your dedication. Alternate with your hands if necessary.
Follow these suggestions and your girl will be thankful! Combine the thoughts in this week's article with tips from last week to pleasure your partner in a 69 position.
• Liz's was nicknamed "The Shotgun" in high school.
Oftentimes for a woman, there is nothing sexier than feeling desirable. If you elect not to perform oral sex on your female partner, she should respect your decision. However, she may interpret your lack of actions as a rejection of part of her sexuality. Talk to her about your choice, and if it is a question of hygiene, it can easily be solved by a bath or a shower together.
A position that is comfortable for both parties involves the woman sitting on the edge of a bed, table, or chair, with her partner kneeling on the floor. This position will let you get as close as you want, while also allowing you to see the effects of your actions.
Most women cannot reach a sexual peak without stimulation of the clitoris (if you do not know what the "clit" is, I'm sure a Google Images search will be an exciting way to find out). So, going down on a girl is mostly about finding her favorite spots and providing a variety of pleasurable sensations.
Once you have determined what your girl does and does not enjoy, try combinations of licking, sucking and flicking your tongue. A tried-and-true method is to trace the ABC's on and around her clit. She may or may not want you to use your hands as well. Try holding your partner closer, lifting her, or using your hands on other erogenous zones while you go down on her.
While variety is certainly important, remember to keep your motions consistent and steady as she approaches her climax. Keep in mind that the "right" amount of pressure differs from woman to woman.
Asking questions is key. They only way to know what your partner wants is to pay attention to what they say and how they react to your actions. A simple question or statement may feel awkward, but might save your partner from having to feign enjoyment. It is also important not to rush your girl; giving her as much time as she needs shows your dedication. Alternate with your hands if necessary.
Follow these suggestions and your girl will be thankful! Combine the thoughts in this week's article with tips from last week to pleasure your partner in a 69 position.
• Liz's was nicknamed "The Shotgun" in high school.
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